Explanation need or need not?

Well I would say that life isn't just about growing up and learning all sorts of knowledge. 

It's also about giving explanation and receiving explanation. 

Let's first talk about EXPLANATION. 

Before all of these, why don't we think upon, in the first place, why is explanation needed? And whom do we dedicate all these explanation? 

LOL it seems a little bit legit. But it's a question worth squeezing our brain juice for. 

We spend a lot of our time explaning. 

We give explanation about our motives, our thoughts and what not. 

We explain so that people could understand us. 

We want to make the situation clear. 

We want the people involve to look at the real matter by him/her self but not simply listen to all those third parties.

We hate misunderstanding. 

We dislike miscommunication. 

But once in a while. 

I wondered. 

Why do we need to explain to those who decided to doubt us? 

Okay you may say that I am stubborn cause I hold too much to my own principles. 

But it's my life and it's my principles. 

After all you are just one of those thousands or millions of passer bys in my life.

Few more years later I can't even recognize you if you pass by me in a crowded place. 

That's true. 

So why do I get myself so overwhelmed when some one misunderstand me? 

Nay That's Not Necessary Miss Mei. 

Don't bring yourself unneeded trouble yo. 

So now we had enough of giving explanation, now let's talk about accepting explanation. 

This is something sentimental. 

First, we human being was placed as the top of all living creatures because we have the ability to think and we could development so fast and so well. 

But no matter how we development we can't be fair and just. 

For how many centuries that human of all races chose not being fair but sided at the more favor side. 

Example 1. 

You know your best friend was at fault in a fight with others. But you will still be sided her cause she is your BEST friend. 

Example 2. 

As the headmaster, you know that student A could perform better but you favor student B more and since they are almost the same , you give it to B. 

Clear enough. 

In a second level thinking, no matter how comprehensible your explanation is, as long as the receiver is not by your side, it's like sea water waving by the beach- not even a shit left. 

Yea life is unfair. 

So you don't have to explain. 

In the same time you have the right not to accept any explanation. 

Live as long as you are happy. 

Life is so short why do you need to bother at those unneeded questions?