It's about Breaking Up

So my friends around me told me that BROKE UP with someone who you have been so in love with is a very common thing in life. It doesn't mean that EVERYONE will eventually break up LOL

But it means that breaking up with someone is a thing that we will definitely experience in our life. It is a PROCESS which we must go through. ( Seriously having this notion make me feel better when I broke up) 

At first I wanted to write about WHAT DO YOU DO AFTER BREAK UP?

But what I managed to find in Google is mainly about WHAT YOU SHOULD NEVER DO AFTER BREAK UP. 

Things are all about the same. For Example like

STOP STALKING YOUR EX (FACEBOOK OR EVEN REAL LIFE)

It's right for you to UN-FRIEND your ex in any social web. I never realize that this is considered as CORRECT though I did it. From experience, I can said that this is GUARANTEED useful. This act is not selfish or what, but staying away from your ex's updates will make you slowly forget about his existence. 

TELL YOURSELF THE STORY BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR EX ALREADY ENDED

This is the matter of your mindset. Never think that begging could make your ex stay. When your ex proposed a Break Up , he or she must had been think about it thoroughly and clarify that there were already no hope nor happiness for continuing the relationship. Be STRONG, accept the fact and move on. 

REMIND YOURSELF ABOUT THE OTHER MEANINGFUL THINGS IN YOUR LIFE

After all LIFE isn't just about love with your ex. Though it is lame, there are still love between you and your FAMILY, FRAMILY (not typo, they are fRiends whom you treated them as family), Pets, Careers, Hobbies and etc. There are so many things you could do to get your life back to the right track, without your ex of course. 

MOTIVATE YOURSELF AND EXPLORE NEW THINGS

Tell yourself you will surely meet someone better. In fact it is very true. Your ex just not your ANOTHER HALF. Your destined another half is on the way, so be patient, make sure you will be in the perfect condition when you meet him and her. Make yourself well-prepared 24 hrs. LOL

Learning new Skills is needed. Bring yourself to a wider world, know more friends. Who knows? Maybe you found your DESTINED ANOTHER HALF in a Modern Dance Lesson?

REMIND YOURSELF OF HIS THINGS THAT LITERALLY A TURN-OFF FOR YOU 

Here, bare in mind that thinking about all the lovely memories between you and your ex is not something that show your appreciation for your ex. That only comes after you had truly let him go. So before this, think about the thing that you really don't like about him. For Example,

His smile is the weirdest one that I have ever seen. 

He don't brush teeth. 

He always fart. 

......

AND YEA OF COURSE THERE ARE TONNES OF THINGS WHICH WE SHOULD NEVER DO AFTER BREAK UP. 

"Accidentally" text-ed them ( You know why I used a QUOTATION MARK for that accidentally LOL)

Moaning to Everyone (Listen to the same story for over 3 weeks could be a mental abuse. wtf)

Unnecessarily Spending of Money (You are not a wise consumer in this moment. )

Talking Bad About Your ex ( This is noone's false. Sometimes things just not in the right path)

Date with a New Target Immediately (Ask yourself, are you REALLY in love or he is just the REPLACEMENT of your ex? )

Not Letting Go ( This is tough but it is the thing that you MUST do, just that it needs TIME )

TIME HEAL, REALLY. 

Enough for the Dos and Donts. 

Now lets have something FUN!!!

When I was searching through the web , I found a quiz which is kinda interesting hahahahhah 

Here is my results. 

This is an Exact exam-style answer. I know the answer should be FALSE, but deep in my heart I will be thinking that it is a TRUE 

Who can ever do this?? 

Cutting off your ex contact while you are having a wounded heart. 

LOL

Let friends read the letter? or 

Tattoo the letter on your back? wtf 

Choice A and C are confusing, they look like the correct answer as well. 

LOL

This is funny. 

but Grammar and Spelling are important too maaaaa

Owhhhhhh

I found my long-lost sock in the bag he gave meeeeeeee

What if...

When I look at Mirror, My face reminds me of him?

Going to Korea to get rid of this Problem?

LOL 

WTF???

Meet New Ex at a book club??

Hair which smell like rotten egg 

First date which he ate like he been starved for a whole week

Should be feeling GREAT

You can try on the Quiz as well, lets see what's your score. 

The Break Up Quiz

Thanks for your ex have even existed in your life

you gained EXPERIENCE

You know that someone like your ex will never ever be your PERFECT MATCH

Or you think you will still fall in love with the same type of people as like your ex

Then, 

Next time when you found one

APPRECIATE him more!

LOVE IS GREAT WHEN YOU FOUND THE RIGHT ONE 

My Favorite Quote from this American Writer

Robert Lee Fulghum 

At last, Wish every Reader of mine

Has a very smooth After-BreakUp-Session

Cheer 

:D

That Rich Kid 1

So today he came into my sight.
I saw one. The K-Pop style guy.
Undeniable that he is the charming one. Not like the other K-Pop style follower , those are like a WOW when we look at his cloth but a EWWWWW when we look at his head.
He is tall, not OVER-DRESSED, every thing just being mix-and-match nicely.
Guess that God did use much more time when He created him.
Alalalalallalala
So he really look nice.
But a merely good-looking guy unnecessarily attracted my attention this muchhhhhh
Until I saw him with this car.

It is a BMW Z4. Which is also the car driven by Hyun Bin in Secret Garden.
BMW had never been a super luxurious car in Korea.
Though it is different with Malaysia because of the super high tax rate.

The actual price for Z4 would be $48950, exchange rate on 17 Jan 2014, it is equal to RM 161,388.15 (with insurance excluded)
It is not expensive right? The actual Price of Z4 is almost equal to one Proton Inspira plus one Proton Persona.

So if you are the car buyer, you would want a Z4 rather than 2 Proton..
At least I will have my decision like the above.

But back to reality, that price is in dreamland. The actual price of Z4 in Malaysia is from RM359,800.00 ( insurance excluded) onwards. I said the price is from RM359,800 because there is another Z4 Sport which cost RM489,800, It is 100K more!!!

Enough for the BMW price in Malaysia. The two facts that we can know from the pricing is that, Number One, BMW is a kind of luxurious car in Malaysia. Number Two, Malaysia Custom earn quite a lot ya. Where does our taxes go? A 160K car being sold at 360K, it is 200K more. As I see more and more people are driving BMW, where does all the EXTRA EARNINGS go?

...Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

It is almost 2am
Gosh I have to sleep late again tonight.

My pity LIVER

Just Stay Tune for

That Rich Kid 2

Cocoon Bar and Club Penang

This Club is some kind a new thing in the Upper Penang Road , it just started operation from July 2013 if I am not mistaken. Nay I am not doing any research about that , I am not writing any assignment or doing tutorial questions after all, Argh! That's STRESS!!

Okay come back come back. 

I went to this place the previous night, for the wonderful NEW YEAR COUNT DOWN!!

It's totally different from the previous time I went there. 

At the first visit it was a rainy Friday night which I hardly see anyone inside. BUT the New Year Count Down event is huge and crowded. Actually it's not worth of since we pay quite a big amount for bill. But cant denied that this type of activity would cost you a pretty penny. I dont know exactly how much we been paying for this , but we have one Chivas and another Martel, we have to give extra charges if we want more Coke and Mineral Water though the first two is FOC. 

After all I think that's not much to describe about an ORDINARY clubbing night, it's just like the other night when we go club or even pub. Hah but the BIGGEST difference here is that I didnt even get DRUNK. That's a huge leap of improvement. Drunk quite a few shots but I am still STEEEEEADY, guess that experience did help in this matter. 

                  

                   

Here is an evident showing that I am not drunk at all. See, I am standing straight and I still know how to pose for photo shoot. 

<3 actually special thanks to my beloved Bong Bong. She lend me this wonderful floral dress especially in this rushing hour. I brought all my dress back to Ipoh as I thought I will be an obedient girl staying in  hostel and study for FINAL!! Okay so it again show that I am playful duhhhhhhh. 

I love this photo. I look so decent after all!! Maybe it's because Bong Bong's dress help a lot. It's in USM PAdang Kawad. It was almost 3am when I walked back to Hostel. The responsible guard didnt allow them to drive the car in so we had to walk. But they didnt do anything wrong as that's their duty and it's hard to stay awake the whole night I know. 

So I think it's enough for the ORDINARY COUNT DOWN CLUBBING NIGHT. 
Now I want to talk about something UNORDINARY for me. 

I got so tired wearing heels so I sat in the restroom. There are 3 young girls there who really caught my attention. They looked young, it's about 17 or 18, even younger than me I guessed. Just called them as A, B and C. Obviously C was having some problem and she was drunk. A was the one who talked with C and B just stood silently. Guessed that the story would be like this :

C broke up with her Bf in this very New Year Count Down day. She was sad, desperate, heart broken. A was a little harsh, she slapped C and kept on shaking her shoulder. C's face was totally swollen and reddish. 

My mind gone blank for a moment. Seeing A hit C's face but every time she hit her, her tears dropping. Of course B is crying like mad too.. A little too dramatic but it was happening just in front of me. Girls walking in out the washroom surely stared at them for moment before carry on their job. There were a few ladies who stopped by and actually gave C some advice but I dont think that she managed to get it. 

Deep in my heart I asked myself is it worth of? Hurting yourself for a Guy for dont even care of you anymore. You cried You commit suicide You bang wall You drunk ALL BRING HIM NO HARM!
You suffering while he might enjoying in love with another girl. We are still too young to take such a HEAVY responsibility to fall in love. If you treat this matter seriously, you wont fall in love easily. That's the notion of my life. 

And the second issue.. Regarding this kind of Playful and Clubbing life. I sometimes wonder whether I should have this kind of life. 
There are some people who think that girls who enjoy this clubbing life is bad. They dont have self-respect. They are CHeAp. They are alcoholic. 
This kind of misconception sometimes make me wanna say NO whenever people date me out for drink. 
But another side of me saying that: HEY! You arent doing anything wrong! You are not going there to look for man or anything that's wrong, you just overwhelmed by the MUSIC there, the ATMOSPHERE and that's what we call  LIFE!
What your life would be if you are so overpowered by what the other say. It's always YOUR LIFE, NOT THEIRS. 

So I again convinced myself. 
Okay BaoMei, actually that's nothing wrong to live your own life in your own will. 
No one can stop you but just make sure you not going to regret one day and once decision is made it has no turning back. 
So be careful when you make every decision and every promises you give. 
MAKE NO EMPTY PROMISES!