What do you do when you have crush on someone?
Or how to recognize whether you are having crush on that someone?
Cause I find myself constantly having crush on different people. Okay I accept that if you were to say I am flirty but I didn't do anything except keep looking at them and stalk their facebook for a little while.
Heh
But my crush normally doesn't last long. Which I think didn't bring me any problem but instead I think that it's kinda CONVENIENT as in I enjoy every CRUSHING process that I experienced.
Hah
But you know sometimes it can be very frustrating when you see your crush didn't have any feeling towards you but of course even if they did I am not going to give them any response.
*facepalm
How can I be so contradicting?!
I searched through the web and found it in Wikihow, to teach us how to recognize that we are having crush on someone.
But before this have you ever knew that even we say it as HAVING CRUSH ON SOMEONE, but there are actually a few kinds of crush.
Frankly after looking through those few kinds of crush I feel happier as I no more think that I am those kind of girl which fall in love easily.
Heh Thanks Gawd.
THE FRIENDLY CRUSH
This is very normal. Is like a stage from a FRIEND to BEST FRIEND. You want to get around with him/her very often but this kinda level-up-relation is not that intense until you wanna be in a relationship with him. Its totally normal to have a friend crush, cause you should want to hang out with your BFF as much as possible.
THE ADMIRATION CRUSH
This happen when you idolize a particular person. Normally when you feel awed by something they did. When they did something amazing or they teach you something in great. This is again very normal. You may find that your crush-like feelings simmer down once the initial awe of being in his/her presence wears off.
THE PASSING CRUSH
As in words. Passing, You might in a relationship but you found someone so attractive. That person is really amazing and attractive but that not necessary for you to reconsider your relationship. If you are single, you will try all of your best to try to be with him. But often you are being attracted physically. Normally his appearance.
THE ROMANTIC CRUSH
Seriously, if you have this, meaning that you really , really like him, in a romantic way. You seriously want to be his girlfriend/boyfriend. If you fantasize about kissing, holding hands with, or cuddling with that person, you probably have a romantic crush.
Only after look through all these different types of CRUSH then I realized I have each and everyone of them.
Currently having a romantic crush which I think sooner or later it will turn to a admiration crush and at last a friendly crush.
I am seriously being friendzoned.
While talking about how to realise that you have crush on someone.
This is amazingly easy.
Ask yourself this few question.
1. Are you constantly missing him?
2. You are having meal, doing some proper stuff but you just cant concentrate because you are thinking of that person.
3. Your behavior/personality changed when you around him.
4. You listen to some romantic song and think "Hey! That's me!"
5. You daydream about that special someone and imagine that both of you go for adventures, doing anything romantic.
Well, generally it has nothing wrong to fall for someone.
But in my opinion, there are a lot more issues that we need to look into before we really start a relationship with anyone.
Maybe you need to get to know your crush more?
And make sure you are ready to start a relationship.
When I grow older, I understood that we have to treat a love relationship seriously.
If I were given a second chance to be in a relationship again
I will trust that special one with all my might.
well said
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